Legacy.com's special 'In Remembrance' section draws family and friends who
create permanent Internet memorials to soldiers killed in Iraq and
Afghanistan
Traffic soars during Memorial Day weekend
EVANSTON, Ill., May 25 /PRNewswire/ -- When Indianapolis resident
Peggie Writtenhouse mourns her brother, Army Master Sgt. James F. "Fred"
Hayes, a father of five killed serving his second tour of Operation Iraqi
Freedom, she can't easily visit his gravesite in a Kentucky veteran's
cemetery. Instead, she visits an Internet memorial to him
http://www.legacy.com/Soldier/Story.aspx?personid=15653317 created on the
online obituary and memorial site, Legacy.com (http://www.legacy.com).
"It's just wonderful," Writtenhouse said about the online guest book
and tribute. "Everyone has said how much it's helped them."
Her family isn't alone. Legacy.com provides online memorials and
obituaries in partnership with more than 400 U.S. newspapers. The entire
Legacy.com site -- which includes memorials and obituaries for more than
half of all people who die in the United States annually -- is visited by
almost 10 million users each month. The site's "In Remembrance" section,
which honors those killed in Afghanistan and Iraq, includes profiles
gleaned from news reports for each of the almost 3,500 servicemen and women
killed to-date in the current conflict.
Visitors soar over Memorial Day
The "In Remembrance" http://www.legacy.com/Soldier/home.aspx section
honors those killed in Iraq and Afghanistan. Since it was created in March
2005, In Remembrance has garnered almost 7 million page views. Its
popularity typically soars during holidays on which America remembers its
fallen soldiers. For example, Legacy.com's traffic doubled last year around
the Memorial Day holiday and increased four-fold over Veterans Day.
Memorial Day "a different holiday after you lose someone in the
military"
"Memorial Day becomes a different holiday after you lose someone in the
military," said Joanne Steen, a former civilian engineer for the Navy who
wrote Military Widow: A Survival Guide and became a certified grief
counselor following the 1992 death of her naval aviator husband in the line
of duty. "It's more than a day to shop or go to barbecues. When there's a
Boy Scout or a Girl Scout putting a flag on the grave of your loved one,
you think about the day differently."
Legacy.com's In Remembrance includes profiles gleaned from news reports
for each of the almost 3,500 servicemen and women killed to-date in the
current conflict. If an obituary is published about the soldier in a
Legacy.com affiliate newspaper, the obituary is also added to the online
profile.
Families enhance Legacy.com's military profiles
Friends and family members can expand soldiers' profiles in two ways.
They type entries into the online guest books that accompany each profile.
They also can -- as Writtenhouse did -- create "Moving Tributes" that
consist of photographs and captions and can be accompanied by music and
voice narration by family members or friends. Since In Remembrance's
creation, almost 400 Moving Tributes and 155,000 guest book entries have
been created.
People find out about the memorials in one of two ways: through a brief
tagline published in each affiliated newspaper's obituary, or through word
of mouth. "I told all of my friends, and each one told their friends, and
it just snowballed," Writtenhouse remembered.
All elements of In Remembrance are free of charge, as is a similar
section also featured on Legacy.com to remember those killed on Sept. 11,
2001. Legacy.com editors review all comments and photographs for
appropriateness before posting them to the Website.
"It's just a way of talking to him, of letting him know we miss him"
Stopher Bartol, chief executive officer of Legacy.com, said In
Remembrance has been a particular moving and powerful element of the site.
"We all see news reports about the war, but it hits home when you see the
photographs and read messages from friends and family about these soldiers
killed in service to their country," he said.
Bartol added that online memorialization has grown more important in
today's mobile society, in which friends and family members often live far
from one another, making travel to funeral services and memorials
difficult. In addition, many visitors feel more comfortable sharing their
feelings in writing in an online guest book rather than speaking at a
service. Mourners also often will pen messages to the departed soldier.
"It's just a way of talking to him, to let him know we miss him,"
Writtenhouse said about messages she and other family members have written
to Hayes in his guest book.
Memorials comfort after the shock of death has subsided
Writtenhouse said her brother's guest book was of particular comfort
after the shock of his death began to subside and his memorial and funeral
service were complete. "There are so many people who say, 'I'm sorry.'
You're sort of go on cruise control, and after a while, you can't hear them
anymore," she remembered. "After you come off auto pilot and settle back
into your life, you can go back to the guest book and read what people
thought of him. It means so much. Even complete strangers have become
friends through what they've written.
"My brother was my best friend, but there are so many things I've
learned about him from reading his guest book."
Friends and family members of soldiers killed in Iraq or Afghanistan
may sign a guest book in memory of the fallen soldier by entering his or
her name at http://www.legacy.com/Soldier/home.aspx and following the
instructions. They also may create a "Moving Tribute" by following the
instructions at:
http://www.legacy.com/MT/Gateway.aspx?Soldier=Yes&PC=Soldier.
Described by CBS MarketWatch as the "granddaddy" of online memorial
companies, http://www.legacy.com provides online memorials and obituaries
in partnership with more than 400 U.S. newspapers. It is visited by almost
10 million users each month and features obituaries and guest books for
more than half of all the people who die in the United States. Legacy.com
is headquartered in the Chicago suburb of Evanston. You may review some of
Legacy.com's media coverage by clicking on the following link, or cutting
and pasting it in your Web browser address field:
http://del.icio.us/Legacy.com.
SOURCE Legacy.com
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CONTACT:
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